2011년 11월 4일 금요일

My sad and embarrassed experience in middle school

       I have a sad and embarrassed story about my friend of middle school. I usually went to school and came home with the friend because my house was located in front of his home.  One day, I fought with the friend.  I don’t know why I did exactly, but I just remember we quarreled over a trivial matter.  My memory is that the cause was because of me, so I should apologize to him, but I didn’t want to that.   It was a problem of my pride and I just wanted to disguise the fact that I felt uncomfortable.  After that, I didn’t do any talking even avoided eye contact with him.  The reason that we fought was already not important, and I wanted to be winner on this dispute.  It was last three days.  Suddenly, he didn’t come to school answered a phone.  A class teacher asked me why he didn’t come, but I didn’t know too why he did.  I began to worry about the fight because I expected he didn’t come because of me.  He didn’t come to school continuously, so I visited to his home eventually.  There is nobody.  I rang a doorbell without interruption, but there was no answer.  A few days later, I heard a shocking story that he transferred to another school.  Nobody knows about his story even the class teacher.  Looking back on it now, I guess he had a serious family problem.  I as a close friend didn’t realize his trouble, and this was a huge tragedy to me at that time.  I don’t know anything, so I couldn’t contact him even now.  I’m regretting my behavior and want to say to him like this.  I’m really sorry, and I was just a kid at that time.  I really miss you.

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  1. Hellow~^^
    Oh... you really have bad story. I can't say about it for sorry. well. I have memory as same as you but little different. Closed my home, there is my friend home. So, I play with him all a day. Although sometime we fought, we quickly made peace. However, the happening came to us. We fought so awfully that we had not play with and talk with, And finally I lose my friend. I often think the beauty day when I with him.

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  2. Hello~Choi G bro~
    I am so sad that you had that kind of story. I want you to touch base with him. Therefore, you shouldn't have done like that way when you are young and now!!!! You always keep your style that you must win in anything. Sometimes, you need to lower your head moderately. Anyway, I really want you to contact your old friend again.

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  3. Oh, how sad story. You really embrassed.. Isn't there any way to contact him? I think that he may miss you. Now, you and he are grown. So, now, you can understand each ohter. In my case, when I fight with friend, soon we get very close friend.^^; I am adult now, so, surely I fight with nobody anymore.

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